Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Happy 90th Birthday Granny Douglas...

It was my Gran's 90th birthday recently, in fact just before we went away on safari (pics and journal to follow soon, promise).

As a tribute, my sister drew up a document with some photos, some personal history and some quotations straight from Gran's mouth.

When I'd heard that my dad had called my sister up in tears after reading it, I wondered what it was that could have made the old man become emotional as it is very unlike him.

So, when I got back from safari, there was a parcel notice waiting for me and I knew my copy had arrived, so I went to pick it up and decided to have a Wimpy breakfast and a read of the tribute. Needless to say, when I got to a certain point, as you will read below, I started sniffling too and I think I got a couple of strange looks from the other Wimpy customers.

I've copied the text straight from the original text as drawn up by my sister, so see if you can find the place where we both started choking back the tears...


... I am 90 today, 15th April 2010, and this is the story of my life so far, as told to Christine & Angela...

Childhood

- I was born on 15th April 1920 on a Croft in Port Nalauchaig, Arisaig.
- Port Nalauchaig is Gaelic for “Port of the Mice”.
- My maiden name was Macdonald.
- I was brought up in Arisaig in the Scottish Highlands by my grandparents, Angus and Catherine Macdonald.
- The name of the house we lived in, Port Nalauchaig, was changed to Cullen View after the renovation in 1937. The name was changed when we had a guest staying with us and he said it should be called Cullen View because of the beautiful view across the water to the Cullen Hills on the Isle of Skye.
- When my uncles did the renovations, we got a bathroom put in. Electricity was put in in 1947 and Granddad’s first comment was “How do we reach up that high to blow out the light at the top of the stairs?”.
- My mother, Mary Ann Macdonald, lived mostly on the Isle of Arran, where she worked in service on a Croft as a housekeeper. I spent my school holidays with her on High Clachalig Farm in Arran.
- I walked about 6 miles a day to St. Mary’s School in Arisaig, sometimes barefoot. That’s the only school I went to. I left school when I was 14 years old.
- Miss Gillies was my teacher – she was a bitch. She gave you the strap for nothing. She’s in heaven now – or maybe hell, I don’t know.
- My head master’s name was Simon Macdonald. He was a Lewis man. (From the Isle of Lewis).
- The nearest Secondary School was miles away in Fort William, so I just stayed at St Mary’s.
- I remember I had an eggcup for an inkwell at the school.
- When I started school, I couldn’t speak English, I only spoke Gaelic at home, you see.
- I attended St Mary’s Roman Catholic Church, Arisaig. Father McNeill was the priest.
- There was plenty to do when I was young. There was work looking after the animals on the Croft.
- I regularly milked the cows. Fresh warm milk from a cow is lovely.
- We had sheep and black & white border collies, Billy, Bessie and Smart, to herd the sheep and cows. Collies are beautiful and good protecting dogs. Smart was my best dog – a pedigree.
- I collected eggs from our hens. Newborn chickens were separated from their parents and brought back to them when they were big enough to follow them safely.
- I had pet rabbits too.
- Later in life, I still love animals. I remember a black and white collie, Fruchin, and a Labrador, Bracken, both from Arran. Fruchin is Gaelic for “heather” and came from Arran.
- I did a lot of cooking and baking, and made bread in a range oven. We grew our own vegetables and I liked gardening.
- I would walk to Morar where my first cousin, Morag Gillies, lived. There is a lovely beach at Morar with miles of white sand.
- I often walked the 12 miles to Mallaig, and from there I went fishing in the Atlantic with my uncle Angus. We caught mackerel, herring and flounders. I could catch salmon from the boat with a rod, and trout from rivers. The boatyard belonged to the Henderson's. I was always welcome there. Elsie, my step sister, married Duncan Henderson.
- There was time for fun too. I had a Macdonald of Clanranald kilt and I wore it when I danced the Highland Fling and the Sword Dance at the Highland Games in Morar and Mallaig.
- There was other dancing too. I liked the Quadrilles, Eightsome Reels and the Lancers – but best of all, I liked Strip the Willow.
- There were some sad times as well. One Friday, I danced all night with the local boys. They went out fishing on Saturday and were never seen again. The boat sank. The sea feeds you, but it is cruel.
- My mother was from a family of 6 children: Alan, Mary Ann, Johnnie, Bella, Flora and Angus.
- When I was nine Nurse Thompson from Stobhill Hospital in Glasgow brought us a little girl to bring up, Ina Gray, who was 6 months old. Ina’s father had died and her mother could not care for her children. Ina’s brothers and sisters’ names were John, James, Peter, Margaret and Robert Gray. The older children lived with Uncle Alan but Ina was the youngest so Uncle Alan asked if we could take her. Uncle Alan lived in Drumdugh, Arisaig.
- When I was twelve, Nurse Thompson brought us another little girl, Elsie Reynolds, who was 11 months old. Both girls were brought up by my granny, but I did most of the cooking. Elsie married Duncan Henderson from Mallaig, Ina married Eric Hancock from London. Ian and Eric live in Cullen View now.
- I have a half sister, Margaret McIvor, who is eighteen years younger than me. She lives in Arran. Her husband’s name was George. He was from Lewis.
- Katie “Fach” is my aunty. Her maiden name and married name are the same – Macdonald. She married uncle Angus, my mother’s youngest brother.
- In 1940 I had to leave Arisaig to go and work for the War Effort. I went to British Aluminium at Fort William. What a shock that was!
- I drove a ‘loco’ which is a steam tank on wheels. Aluminium powder is mixed with water and boiled in the furnace until it becomes liquid. I transferred this to my ‘loco’ and moved it around the plant to where the ingots were made. It was scary until you got used to it, mostly because of the flames that came out the back.
- My first love was Bobby French, a soldier. He left me for another.

Married Life
- I met my husband at a dance. His name was George Wishart Small Douglas. He was born in Edinburgh on 6th February 1920.
- George had lovely blue eyes.
- George was a Commando in the Cameron Highlanders, and was billeted at Rubanna Lodge, which belonged to the Nicholson family.
- The nicest tartan you can get is the Cameron Highlander’s Regimental Tartan. It is yellow, red and green.
- I came to Edinburgh to marry George. We were married on 10th June 1942 at Richmond Church, Craigmillar. The Minister’s name was Mr Hutchison.
- My family treated me as an outcast because I married out of my faith.
- On my wedding day I wore a royal blue costume and a wee hat with a brim.
- When I came to Edinburgh, I first worked in the Royal Infirmary at Lauriston as a cleaner. Later I worked in the Rubber Mill, where I made rubber piping.
- My mother-in-law, Catherine Douglas, was a lovely woman who looked after me. She was a nurse and delivered all my children at home, except for my last one, Margaret. I could not have managed without my mother-in-law.
- My father-in-law was a butcher. His name was Reginald James Douglas (same as my son).
- Our own first house in Edinburgh was in Waverley Buildings in 1942, near the Magdalene Chapel in the Cowgate. It was a big change from the Highlands! Reginald, George and Alan were born in this house.
- After that we moved to 4 Broomhouse Gardens East where all my other children were born.
- In 1960 we moved to 94 Stenhouse Street West where I lived for 27 years.
- Through the years I have also lived in Hailsland Park, Murryburn, Calder Grove and Calder Drive and in 2006 I moved back to Stenhouse Street West – where I now live with Felix, my cat.
- I had one child every year for a long time. In the end I had ten children, although one, Helen, died when she was five years old.
- George and I grew our own vegetables. I loved having a garden.
- George worked as a butcher with Munro’s and later as a bus conductor. We managed fine.
- Redgie and his wife, Eleanor, emigrated to South Africa. I don’t think I’ll see Redgie again on this earth.
- For years I made a dumpling at Christmas for each one of my family. I made them to my granny’s favourite recipe and everyone wanted one. I also made all my own black bun, shortbread, etc. I was good at scones too. I don’t bake any more as I no longer have a cooker.

My Children
- Redgie, being the first born, was the favourite. He was a good laddie.
- Dode was a lovable rogue. He spent Christmases in Soughton Prison because he liked their 3 course dinner.
- Alan was clever at school. He brought home certificates.
- Alex was very shy and quiet except when he burnt my bed with his cigarette.
- Helen died when she was 5 of silent Pneumonia. She was a tomboy and stood up for everyone.
- Anne was a blue baby at birth. We had to rush her to the hospital to have her blood changed. Anne was George’s favourite.
- Eddie has his trade as a stone mason. He was the first to buy his own house.
- James loves animals and birds. He used to leave home with a carrier bag when he got a row – but only went as far as the car park where he’d hide behind a car for a little while, then come home again.
- Christine looks after everyone – just like my mother-in-law, after whom she is named. She looks after me day-to-day and I really appreciate it.
- Margaret was the only one born in a Hospital so that I could get sterilised straight afterwards. Margaret was a sweet bairn.


Retirement Years

- Tom McFarlane worked as a train driver and had a dog called Dusty. He had a car and took me all over. We also went to France once and got stranded and had to spend a night in the railway station! He had a life-long railway pass.
- My pal, Archie Cameron, was from Fort William. I went to the same school as him. We met again in the Club 85. He was my close friend. He died of cancer.
- Felix, my cat, protects me. She has a boy’s name, I know. I got her as a kitten from my granddaughter, Amanda’s cat. The wee thing looked like Felix the cat from the television and I didn’t realise she was female until the vet told me. It was too late to change her name then. Felix is a great pal to me. She sleeps with me and if I get up to go to the toilet during the night, Felix sits at the bathroom door and waits for me, then sees me back to my bed. She’s rare and warm, just like a hot water bottle.

Did You Know?...

- I panic unless I have my keys, handbag and walking stick near me at all times.
- Whisky is the “Water of Life”. The Gaelic word for whisky is Ish-kabe.
- My favourite colour is light blue.
- We always washed in the sea, and I don’t really like hot water. Cold water is healthier.
- Autumn is the best season – it is the shooting season.
- My favourite music is Scottish Music. I particularly enjoy Kenneth McKellar, Andy Stewart and Alistair McDonald.
- I wear a silver link bracelet. Eddie bought me that from his first week’s wages.
- We were fed porridge twice a day, for breakfast and dinner, and I now hate hate hate porridge!


Some other family photos





Sisturrrrr....as usual, you've done us proud with what you did for Gran...thank you...xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

4 comments:

Tammy said...

I had a read of this when I went to see Angie, I'm betting you were sniffling over the bit about Nanna not seeing Grandad again - me too!

Can't wait to hear about your holiday!

p.s. booked my first wedding photoshoot! July 2011 :o)

xoxox

Divemaster GranDad said...

Hiya babe...yup, that's the bit...

Busy posting photos on Facebook at the moment...will put out a notice when done.

Who's wedding have you booked? Your own? LOL...

xoxoxoxo

Tammy said...

I wish! LOL

A friend of ours is getting hitched and she wanted someone she knew to do the pics so they were more "intimate" so she asked me to do them! Doing some engagement pics for them this Sunday so will post those soon :o)

xoxoxoxox

Anonymous said...

Hiya,

Yep, that's me folks, modest to a fault... No seriously, I enjoyed doing it. There are a few mistakes here and there but we had to decide whether it was to be more factual or 'Nana's story'... Nana, as usual, won :-)

Luv and miss you
Come visit soon?!!!!!!
Yur wee sustur
xxx